There’s nothing better than meeting a cute doggo with those happy tail wags and poochy kisses or watching your own dog make a new best friend at the beach or park. It can be so much fun!
But did you know there’s such a thing as dog etiquette?
It’s true.. and it’s super simple.
I decided to write this blog to help pawrents and dog walkers become more aware of dog greeting etiquette, since it isn’t as widely known as we might hope. At Poochy Pets, I teach our sitters these same principles, because we want to treat every pet with the respect and understanding they need as sentient beings in our care.
Basically, when you see a doggo you’d love to say hi to, just quickly ask the pawrent if it’s okay before reaching towards and petting them. Some will say yes of course! Some will say no. And both answers are totally okay!
And by asking first, you’re already doing something wonderful.. you’re helping create safer, calmer walks for every dog. That tiny moment of kindness goes a long way.
If someone says no, it’s not about you. It’s them putting their doggo’s needs first. Maybe the dog is in training, maybe they’re anxious, maybe they’re just having a moment and need a little space. And yes, they’re still totally allowed to be out enjoying a walk. Fresh air, sniffing and exploring, all of that is important enrichment for every dog.
So if the answer is no, a simple “okay!” and a smile is perfect. It shows you respect the pet and their pawrent, and honestly, more people appreciate that than you may realise.
It’s a lot like how we don’t want to be hugged by random strangers every few steps. Some dogs love all the attention and will practically melt into your arms, and some won’t, and that’s perfectly valid.
As a community of dog lovers, we should be respectful, gentle, and understanding of each pet’s different needs. And the more each of us follows these little courtesies, the safer and happier our walks become for everyone.
Now let’s talk about dogs greeting each other.
There are so many different scenarios. Off lead dogs greeting on lead dogs, two off lead dogs, two on lead dogs. Socialising can be wonderful and is super important, but maybe we have a rescue dog, maybe something happened in their past, maybe they’re just not comfortable. We can’t possibly know every doggo’s story, which is why checking in with the pawrent first, is always the safest choice.
And when you do ask, you’re not just being polite.. you’re actively helping dogs feel more secure during moments that could otherwise be overwhelming.
The principle stays the same. Ask first, then either approach or kindly move on.
If your dog is off lead, make sure they have a reliable recall. This keeps them safe and allows other pets the space they need. Always check with other pawrents before letting your dog approach. Asking first protects everyone and helps prevent stressful situations. Having proper recall is one of the kindest things you can do for another pet and their pawrent.
Another little tip.. if you see a dog wearing a red or yellow harness or bandana, etc, it usually means they need a bit of space. But not every pawrent knows this, so asking first is always best, no matter what colours they’re wearing.
Let’s all practice kind, positive dog etiquette by being patient, thoughtful, and encouraging with one another. Every small moment of understanding helps our pets feel safer in a busy world, and a pawrent being able to advocate for their pet and having that be respected is everything.
Do it for the dogs.. they really do deserve all the love, care and understanding we can give them.
Xx La